One of the things that distinguish man from beasts is sex. Humans conceal it while beasts bare it. When I view a pornography movie, I see a beastly act and my heart aches for the actors. Having sex is not a sin, but one should 'beware'yes beware of making sex before falling in love first. Sex without love becomes lust. This kind of pleasure weakens our self-awareness and drives us away from the protection of our own conscience resulting in mental disorder as time goes by. Mother Nature has blessed us humans with the gift of a conscience. Beasts do not posses such a gift! I believe that there is only one sin. This is, when one destroys nature or hurts humanity. I am a father to nine children and by no means am I against gays or lesbians. Only they know how their biological body is engineered. After all, they are our brothers and sisters. However, whether you are a straight or homosexual personloving, caring, and keeping to one partner for as long as possible is essential for self-improvement. Making love and having sex are two separate issues. Apart of the natural sexual activity, to reproduce our species, another dynamic role opens up as we blend love with sexual pleasure in one harmony. Where true love is present, self-awareness will blossom and we enter into a trance, where we communicate with all our senses at the same time. I call this bliss, 'blessed sex'. Yet, apart from this mental and physical shared experience, another and more subtle impact happens to our brain at this stage. Physical exercise helps bodybuilders to expand their muscles to grow and achieve a stronger body. The same happens to us when we regularly practice blessed sex. A sort of a psychological muscular space builds up in our memory brain cells where tranquillity reigns. This state of mind keeps us at peace within ourselves. Daily problems, no matter how hard they may be, find refuge in our hearts as now our personality has grown stronger. Because of these healthy qualities, we have opened a window for knowledge and wisdom to flow into our brain. This phenomenon will help us to cope with stress and resolve most of our mental and physical problems on our own. From where such intelligence comes from, it does not matter! It only matters that we will become wiser. Blessed sex is the key why we should hold sex as something, which is sacred. The Missing Link. Do not certain religions' teachings drive their followers into believing that making sex is a kind of a taboo? They also condemn homosexuals and build up many restrictions on how their followers should go about having sex, even within their own religious communities with the vow of celibacy. Why? Throughout the Ages. Could there be a hidden agenda about sex, which the leaders of these religions know about, to keep their followers in 'ignorance'thus creating psychological problems due to sex confusion, so that they can have control over their people? The more we keep in touch with our senses, the more knowledge flows in. Not necessarily in the act of sex itself, but only blessed sex provides us with the ability to communicate simultaneously with all our sensesan opportunity in growing wiser. The more we are aware of the benefits this blessing has to offer, the healthier and happier we will be. |
